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RE: People, it's time that we stop holding grudges against each other. - EDGE - 08-15-2019
While I understand your approach, please don't assume you are the only one who my message was directed to because of "your other post", if you feel like it is for you then you have your reasons but also know that if so, you are not the only one so sit back and read really good before getting defensive.
I didnt say you or anyone else dont have the right to feel safe, comfortable and whatever else you mentioned.
Why would I suggest contacting the staff if harassment were to happen?
Also, I never said get over it.
In fact I said I don't have a problem with people having grudges and holding on to the past.
If these people were to show up and you don't want to be civil with them that's fine with me.
My point is, if you or anyone feel so affected by these interactions and it hurts you then seek professional help.
The last thing I want is for anyone to get hurt or not feel safe and comfortable.
I just personally believe if someone is affected by something friends can support them but they can still seek professional help.
Also, I don't think you are blowing things out of proportion.
Everyone has their reasons to act and react how they do and everyone else will never understand.
However, this is a forum with rules and it's only fair we all follow the same rules.
If you feel attacked by me, I apologize those werent my intentions at all.
I just wanted to share my view on the matter as I've seen people do things that end bad because they didn't get the help they needed.
Again, I am sorry but I like to be straight forward so sorry if it came out the wrong way.
RE: People, it's time that we stop holding grudges against each other. - strabiri - 08-15-2019
I agree. The peoples of this community have gone too far the wrong way and I think that needs to change. Peace may not be a thing in the real world but it definitely is possible here, and I (and many others) wish for this peace to be restored.
RE: People, it's time that we stop holding grudges against each other. - SonicKade2048 - 08-15-2019
(08-15-2019, 08:14 PM)ultragreenmario Wrote: I agree. The peoples of this community have gone too far the wrong way and I think that needs to change. Peace may not be a thing in the real world but it definitely is possible here, and I (and many others) wish for this peace to be restored.
How can peace be restored if you're one of the people who have been disrupting it with constant shitposting, especially in the Discord server?
That's ironic. or hypocritical, i don't know the right term
RE: People, it's time that we stop holding grudges against each other. - GothGirlGangBlasterMaster - 08-15-2019
@SonicKade2048 i see u spreading hate rn and im gonna need u 2 start spreading love asap
RE: People, it's time that we stop holding grudges against each other. - SonicKade2048 - 08-15-2019
(08-15-2019, 09:05 PM)GothGirlGangBlasterMaster Wrote: @SonicKade2048 i see u spreading hate rn and im gonna need u 2 start spreading love asap
Well, I hate to break it to you, but...
![[Image: undertale_text_box.gif]](https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/527614196817592333/611728342391062663/undertale_text_box.gif)
RE: People, it's time that we stop holding grudges against each other. - Mario - 08-16-2019
You know, I disagree with Edge. I think some people including Fourside Seven have been blowing things out of proportion. We don't need to hear about your beef with specific former members (who aren't even here) in a bunch of threads. It's fine to talk about how the community in general wasn't up to par in the past but these constant "you know who I DON'T miss" posts aren't really good for anyone. I'm not excusing anything they did or saying you shouldn't have issues with them, but they're certainly not here to defend themselves and if they were you probably would leave. So I'm not sure what you want other than to make MFGG your personal podium for ranting about people you don't like.
RE: People, it's time that we stop holding grudges against each other. - EDGE - 08-16-2019
Sorry, I should've explained and quoted my other post in the other thread.
I agreed that Fourside Seven isn't blowing things out of proportions because it affects him, in the other thread I said that there was a place for it tho.
I also expressed a similar opinion to yours before it just seems loose since I posted them on different threads.
Some in the previous page of this thread.
Some about talking on those who aren't here.
The "It's not what but where".
There might be some more around...
RE: People, it's time that we stop holding grudges against each other. - Evil Yoshi Toes - 08-16-2019
@SonicKade2048 I understand feelings of frustration with another member, but please avoid making posts like that. It's part of the problem! If someone does something wrong you can report them to staff, but otherwise it's best to learn to coexist with them, even if it means ignoring them. If you feel like someone is bullying you and you want to talk to staff about it to see what they can do of course you may and should, but posts like that one never end well. I know it can be hard especially if you have very strong feelings about another member, but it's in the best interest of the community's peace.
On the subject of grudges on MFGG, more important for the community than people getting over grudges is people learning to coexist peacefully with those they hold grudges against. That's not just important on MFGG, it's important everywhere. Of course if something is currently going on they can contact staff, and if it is affecting them seriously they should seek professional guidance.
What's most important for each of us is to not let grudges hold us down, which I think is what Ostrich may have been getting at when he asked people to get over their grudges. That's not to say forget the wrong people have done you, just realize that you are strong and find that strength within you to not let others hold you back and keep you from being the best you can be. Easier said than done of course, but some day we will all get there as long as we make the effort.
RE: People, it's time that we stop holding grudges against each other. - strabiri - 08-16-2019
(08-15-2019, 09:04 PM)SonicKade2048 Wrote:(08-15-2019, 08:14 PM)ultragreenmario Wrote: I agree. The peoples of this community have gone too far the wrong way and I think that needs to change. Peace may not be a thing in the real world but it definitely is possible here, and I (and many others) wish for this peace to be restored.
How can peace be restored if you're one of the people who have been disrupting it with constant shitposting, especially in the Discord server?
That's ironic. or hypocritical, i don't know the right term
Didnt ask
RE: People, it's time that we stop holding grudges against each other. - OddieTheRock - 08-17-2019
(08-16-2019, 04:53 PM)ultragreenmario Wrote:Guys, please don't derail the thread off the rails.(08-15-2019, 09:04 PM)SonicKade2048 Wrote:(08-15-2019, 08:14 PM)ultragreenmario Wrote: I agree. The peoples of this community have gone too far the wrong way and I think that needs to change. Peace may not be a thing in the real world but it definitely is possible here, and I (and many others) wish for this peace to be restored.
How can peace be restored if you're one of the people who have been disrupting it with constant garbage posting, especially in the Discord server?
That's ironic. or hypocritical, i don't know the right term
Didnt ask
RE: People, it's time that we stop holding grudges against each other. - Pedigree - 08-19-2019
(08-16-2019, 04:53 PM)FUNKY GREEN MARIO!!! Wrote:(08-15-2019, 09:04 PM)SonicKade2048 Wrote:(08-15-2019, 08:14 PM)ultragreenmario Wrote: I agree. The peoples of this community have gone too far the wrong way and I think that needs to change. Peace may not be a thing in the real world but it definitely is possible here, and I (and many others) wish for this peace to be restored.
How can peace be restored if you're one of the people who have been disrupting it with constant shitposting, especially in the Discord server?
That's ironic. or hypocritical, i don't know the right term
Didnt ask
It's funny that you'd say that phrase considering how little anyone else cares what you think, bro.
RE: People, it's time that we stop holding grudges against each other. - Mors - 08-19-2019
(08-19-2019, 02:28 PM)Pedigree Wrote: It's funny that you'd say that phrase considering how little anyone else cares what you think, bro.
Did you really have to say that days after?
Just... drop it. This isn't the place for such petty arguments
RE: People, it's time that we stop holding grudges against each other. - Angustia - 08-19-2019
I never would've guessed that a thread telling people to stop holding grudges lead to people arguing about grudging !
RE: People, it's time that we stop holding grudges against each other. - GothGirlGangBlasterMaster - 08-19-2019
(08-19-2019, 04:04 PM)Angustia Wrote: I never would've guessed that a thread telling people to stop holding grudges lead to people arguing about grudging !
i did
RE: People, it's time that we stop holding grudges against each other. - Pedigree - 08-19-2019
(08-19-2019, 03:51 PM)Mors Wrote:(08-19-2019, 02:28 PM)Pedigree Wrote: It's funny that you'd say that phrase considering how little anyone else cares what you think, bro.
Did you really have to say that days after?
Is there some kind of rule against replying to a post that is only three days old?
I'm kinda confused.For the record I was brought to the thread when someone 1upped an older post of mine in the thread and then I stumbled onto UGM's post. It's not like I'm seeking out the opportunity to call him out, and it's not like anyone from staff stepped in until now either.
I'll drop it, though, fair enough. But don't act like I'm bumping an ancient thread for a "petty" argument when it was one of the most recent threads in the general chat.
RE: People, it's time that we stop holding grudges against each other. - strabiri - 08-19-2019
(08-19-2019, 04:15 PM)Pedigree Wrote:(08-19-2019, 03:51 PM)Mors Wrote:(08-19-2019, 02:28 PM)Pedigree Wrote: It's funny that you'd say that phrase considering how little anyone else cares what you think, bro.
Did you really have to say that days after?
Is there some kind of rule against replying to a post that is only three days old?
For the record I was brought to the thread when someone 1upped an older post of mine in the thread and then I stumbled onto UGM's post. It's not like I'm seeking out the opportunity to call him out, and it's not like anyone from staff stepped in until now either.
I'll drop it, though, fair enough. But don't act like I'm bumping an ancient thread for a "petty" argument when it was one of the most recent threads in the general chat.
bro can u shut up lol
RE: People, it's time that we stop holding grudges against each other. - GothGirlGangBlasterMaster - 08-19-2019
(08-19-2019, 04:23 PM)FUNKY GREEN MARIO!!! Wrote:(08-19-2019, 04:15 PM)Pedigree Wrote:(08-19-2019, 03:51 PM)Mors Wrote:(08-19-2019, 02:28 PM)Pedigree Wrote: It's funny that you'd say that phrase considering how little anyone else cares what you think, bro.
Did you really have to say that days after?
Is there some kind of rule against replying to a post that is only three days old?
For the record I was brought to the thread when someone 1upped an older post of mine in the thread and then I stumbled onto UGM's post. It's not like I'm seeking out the opportunity to call him out, and it's not like anyone from staff stepped in until now either.
I'll drop it, though, fair enough. But don't act like I'm bumping an ancient thread for a "petty" argument when it was one of the most recent threads in the general chat.
bro can u shut up lol
did you eat paint chips as a child
RE: People, it's time that we stop holding grudges against each other. - EDGE - 08-20-2019
Now we are playing the "I'm superior if I have the last word" game?
Even if FUNKY was doing such things on the other place his reply here was positive and asked for something we all need, didn't see anything wrong with it.
Also, I don't like picking sides but SonicKade and Pedigree got asked to stop, only fair that FUNKY stops instigating as well else the warning to the other members seems like a one way street.
Not hating on the funkiness or how things are handled, just giving my view on the matter as it hasn't stopped.
We can do better than this dudes, c'mon.
RE: People, it's time that we stop holding grudges against each other. - OddieTheRock - 08-20-2019
You guys are causing this thread to shift away from it's original intent.
RE: People, it's time that we stop holding grudges against each other. - Angustia - 08-20-2019
From an outside perspective; I think the message was clear and has good intent but me personally I do not see this ending well and would rather have the thread locked before things escalate even further!
Just my two cents!