08-15-2019, 07:59 PM
(This post was last modified: 08-15-2019, 08:04 PM by EDGE. Edited 1 time in total.)
While I understand your approach, please don't assume you are the only one who my message was directed to because of "your other post", if you feel like it is for you then you have your reasons but also know that if so, you are not the only one so sit back and read really good before getting defensive.
I didnt say you or anyone else dont have the right to feel safe, comfortable and whatever else you mentioned.
Why would I suggest contacting the staff if harassment were to happen?
Also, I never said get over it.
In fact I said I don't have a problem with people having grudges and holding on to the past.
If these people were to show up and you don't want to be civil with them that's fine with me.
My point is, if you or anyone feel so affected by these interactions and it hurts you then seek professional help.
The last thing I want is for anyone to get hurt or not feel safe and comfortable.
I just personally believe if someone is affected by something friends can support them but they can still seek professional help.
Also, I don't think you are blowing things out of proportion.
Everyone has their reasons to act and react how they do and everyone else will never understand.
However, this is a forum with rules and it's only fair we all follow the same rules.
If you feel attacked by me, I apologize those werent my intentions at all.
I just wanted to share my view on the matter as I've seen people do things that end bad because they didn't get the help they needed.
Again, I am sorry but I like to be straight forward so sorry if it came out the wrong way.
I didnt say you or anyone else dont have the right to feel safe, comfortable and whatever else you mentioned.
Why would I suggest contacting the staff if harassment were to happen?
Also, I never said get over it.
In fact I said I don't have a problem with people having grudges and holding on to the past.
If these people were to show up and you don't want to be civil with them that's fine with me.
My point is, if you or anyone feel so affected by these interactions and it hurts you then seek professional help.
The last thing I want is for anyone to get hurt or not feel safe and comfortable.
I just personally believe if someone is affected by something friends can support them but they can still seek professional help.
Also, I don't think you are blowing things out of proportion.
Everyone has their reasons to act and react how they do and everyone else will never understand.
However, this is a forum with rules and it's only fair we all follow the same rules.
If you feel attacked by me, I apologize those werent my intentions at all.
I just wanted to share my view on the matter as I've seen people do things that end bad because they didn't get the help they needed.
Again, I am sorry but I like to be straight forward so sorry if it came out the wrong way.