People, it's time that we stop holding grudges against each other.

[Arrietty]

I apologize for my post, I realize that there are a lot of justified grudges. For example, I won't listen to a damn thing Vert says becuase they've stalked, harassed and suicide baited people in this community within the past year or so. So I can totally understand that there's plenty of vile people out there and things you just don't hear about out in the open.

However, some people have beefs I can't really respect, like they got criticized by someone once. Being criticized is good for you, friends. If you surround yourself only with yes men, you're not going to grow. The people willing to stand up to you and risk your friendship are the ones you want to keep around.

While the people we were venting about don't fit the description, the last paragraph is something I can agree with. People who criticize our behavior are fine. And I don't think anyone else here would disagree with that, I think.