09-11-2020, 04:11 PM
I guess my two cents should be said about your post -- Kirb, vulnerability is something worth cultivating. Is it ok to be vulnerable. Tell that to yourself.
Look, I can't exactly give you the psychological tools you really need to navigate these things (let's just put that out there -- a lot of people need these tools), I will tell you some cold, hard facts here:
- People really only care about who you are in the moment.
When I hear your post, I feel like you're still struggling with, I'm going to say it, shame. It sounds like you're having a hard time accepting yourself.
Let me tell you now, that it is not easy, but I will tell you a secret: Compassion. Love your life. Love everything about it, even your shame.
People don't exist for very long, and to be sorry for so many times... you don't get much out of it.
My lasting words are: Language is a powerful tool, and 'sorry' is powerful in itself. You want to be careful about it, because you don't want to undermine your own... world, essentially. You're valid, and the way you talk to yourself is how you talk to people, and the world as it is.
You can change. I believe in you.
Look, I can't exactly give you the psychological tools you really need to navigate these things (let's just put that out there -- a lot of people need these tools), I will tell you some cold, hard facts here:
- People really only care about who you are in the moment.
When I hear your post, I feel like you're still struggling with, I'm going to say it, shame. It sounds like you're having a hard time accepting yourself.
Let me tell you now, that it is not easy, but I will tell you a secret: Compassion. Love your life. Love everything about it, even your shame.
People don't exist for very long, and to be sorry for so many times... you don't get much out of it.
My lasting words are: Language is a powerful tool, and 'sorry' is powerful in itself. You want to be careful about it, because you don't want to undermine your own... world, essentially. You're valid, and the way you talk to yourself is how you talk to people, and the world as it is.
You can change. I believe in you.
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