08-16-2019, 09:12 AM
(This post was last modified: 08-16-2019, 09:12 AM by Evil Yoshi Toes.)
@SonicKade2048 I understand feelings of frustration with another member, but please avoid making posts like that. It's part of the problem! If someone does something wrong you can report them to staff, but otherwise it's best to learn to coexist with them, even if it means ignoring them. If you feel like someone is bullying you and you want to talk to staff about it to see what they can do of course you may and should, but posts like that one never end well. I know it can be hard especially if you have very strong feelings about another member, but it's in the best interest of the community's peace.
On the subject of grudges on MFGG, more important for the community than people getting over grudges is people learning to coexist peacefully with those they hold grudges against. That's not just important on MFGG, it's important everywhere. Of course if something is currently going on they can contact staff, and if it is affecting them seriously they should seek professional guidance.
What's most important for each of us is to not let grudges hold us down, which I think is what Ostrich may have been getting at when he asked people to get over their grudges. That's not to say forget the wrong people have done you, just realize that you are strong and find that strength within you to not let others hold you back and keep you from being the best you can be. Easier said than done of course, but some day we will all get there as long as we make the effort.
On the subject of grudges on MFGG, more important for the community than people getting over grudges is people learning to coexist peacefully with those they hold grudges against. That's not just important on MFGG, it's important everywhere. Of course if something is currently going on they can contact staff, and if it is affecting them seriously they should seek professional guidance.
What's most important for each of us is to not let grudges hold us down, which I think is what Ostrich may have been getting at when he asked people to get over their grudges. That's not to say forget the wrong people have done you, just realize that you are strong and find that strength within you to not let others hold you back and keep you from being the best you can be. Easier said than done of course, but some day we will all get there as long as we make the effort.