09-12-2020, 06:44 PM
(09-11-2020, 09:14 AM)Mario Wrote: Delete this post and save yourself the embarrassment.I completely agree with this. I lost count how many times you have apologized in Discord. It's like a boy who cried for wolf, we don't feel it is really sincere as it was initially even if you're genuinely sorry. Some of us will expect you to leave the community, then come back and behave the same way it is after some time. Don't get me wrong, you have improved over the years. In short: your actions speak louder than words.
"starting tomorrow," ? come on dude. First of all, if you want to get better, you'll start now.
These big pity party apology posts are worthless and annoying. Nobody's holding anything against you from the phpbb forums. Some of the staff we have now weren't even active then. I don't know what youre obsession is with bringing them up. Your behaviour now is what you're judged for- and if you want that to change? You do the work to do better. That's it. There's no magic giant post you can write that will solve all your issues.
If there's issues with individuals you think you need to resolve, then you need to resolve those on an individual level, on both of your terms. But as a community as a whole? Just do better. Or leave. Or don't do anything just like last time, or the time before that, or I'm sure this has happened on Discord quite a few times as well.
If I were you, make a mental note of your mistakes and remind yourself to think before posting. Write it down if you can't remember it that well.
Like Mario said, if you want to change, it is now. Not tomorrow.